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Things that are Important to me #2: The most important invention in my lifetime is…….

I have been thinking about this subject over the past week in preparation for this blog post, and it has been quite tough to choose one thing over the past (ahem) 50 years which, to me, has been the most important (to me) invention. Since the 1970s, we have seen the emergence of the mobile phone, the internet, more sophisticated computers, online shopping, ATMs, CDs and DVDs (now eclipsed by Blue-Ray discs), MP3s, eBooks, and automated machines which can tell you everything from the news headlines to playing a favourite song just by the sound of your voice wakening it up. Life in the 2020s seems to be more ‘plugged in’ than I can remember it as a child and I’m not necessarily sure if this is a good thing.

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Yes, I have multiple Spotify playlists which I listen to on a daily basis – probably listening to music through this platform more than actually putting one of my hundreds of CDs into my CD player. But that’s because it’s more convenient. And, although I still have a CD Walkman, carrying that about when I’m exercising outdoors isn’t really practical. Yes, I’m writing this blog on the internet (more out of wanting to document my thoughts as my reach with this blog is pathetically low), and I do get some shopping online. It’s very different studying for degrees nowadays than it was when I was a nursing student in the 1990s; to write essays we had to scour little drawers in the library to find the particular article we wanted and then, armed with that info, you went in search of the journal or book. Tough luck if someone else had it out on loan/borrowing it at the time. It was even more fun when your whole year group was writing the same essay – 30 people trying to gain access to one article was a bit like trying to be first into the January sales!

Nowadays, libraries have everything a log-on away. Everything is a lot more instant – which can only be a good thing, right? Social media means that you can have immediate conversations with people you have never met on the other side of the globe (or even in your town) – surely that has to be good for loneliness? Personally, I am weaning myself off social media – I very rarely use my Twitter account any more (it’s too full of celebrities seeking the most followers/validation and such like. I’m going to be deleting that platform soon), and I am rarely on my Facebook. Instead of easing loneliness, it actually makes me feel worse. When I see people who I thought were friends meeting up for events that I haven’t been invited to, or someone I know ‘unfriends’ me [once a real-life acquaintance who I had known for 30 odd years blocked me on Facebook because I wished her a happy anniversary. Ehhh?? By the way, she was still happily married to the same man so what was that about?], or I am forced to see the wondrous evidence of everyone else’s perfect lives (or so they like to depict them), it makes me feel inadequate, sad, and that I’ve done something wrong. Have I said something to make people not like me and not want to be friends with me? Why isn’t my life like that? And why is it that people who ‘cut you dead’ when you see them in the street ask to be your Facebook friend? It’s all a bit beyond me, I’m afraid. So, I keep my Facebook and Instagram use to the bare minimum and am hoping to purge myself of them completely within the next few years.

St George’s, Edinburgh, Class of 1990 ‘Belated’ Reunion: June, 2022

But, on the flip side, social media has helped me gain contact with a lot of my old school friends (I loved my school days) and I enjoyed a wonderful reunion with them all again last summer. I have also met some remarkable people who have helped me raise shedloads of cash for charity that little introverted me would never have managed to raise by myself. Additionally, over lockdown, being able to go online (Youtube) to join the services from our church gave a form of constancy and much-needed solace. I do think, though, that social media can never replicate actual face-to-face conversations. I do enjoy hearing news of people directly from them in person, seeing facial expressions, etc, rather than impersonally over the web. Same with shopping, I’d much rather go into a shop and buy things rather than get them online; the latter seems so impersonal. I prefer to live ‘in the moment’ and enjoy real life around me than to live through what I see on a screen. So, although the internet is good for some things, to me it isn’t the greatest invention of my lifetime.

Mobile phones – again, I could quite happily live without mine. I am slowly downgrading the type of phone I have and am wanting just the basic remodel of the Nokia 3310. I only have one friend who calls me (I know – I seem not to have many close friends just now!) but otherwise I only use it to call my Dad, or to make appointments. I don’t need the internet on the go, although Google Maps is useful sometimes when I get lost (a frequent occurrence!), as is Spotify (for listening to music on the go. I’m not really a podcast person). When waiting for a bus, or an appointment, nearly every other person waiting has their phone out and are aimlessly scrolling. Meanwhile, I whip the book I have brought along with me out of my bag. I’d rather hide in some quality fiction than in the fiction of social media!

Talking of books – eBooks. Now, I have numerous Kindles. I have about 1000 books on them (most stored on the ‘cloud’). My Kindle is great for taking on holiday when I’m scared I might run out of reading material, or for reading during the night when I can’t sleep. But, there is nothing that beats a physical book. So, I could live without my eBook reader – I would just have fewer books.

So, what is the most important invention in my life-time, in my opinion? I think it has to be the advances in the medical world, particularly the invention of the MRI (imaging machine). Cancer can now be cured, or better controlled, and so many new procedures (such as laparoscopic surgery) have meant that fewer people have to have open surgery for appendicectomies or for gall bladder removal, etc. Due to my extensive medical history, I have had so many CT scans that I am not allowed any more in my lifetime. Instead, I have to have MRIs. Indeed, without my latest MRI, the cancer I had would not have been diagnosed so accurately. They’re noisy brutes – I wasn’t even offered earphones or music for mine – but extremely effective. And what is more important than diagnostic tests to enable individuals to get effective and prompt treatment for their illnesses? I am hoping that I won’t need any more scans – but should it be necessary – I will be indebted to Paul Christian Lautebur. Without his invention being trialled in the medical field, in the year I was born, I wouldn’t be here now. And nor would many millions of others.

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So, three cheers for medical advances and, especially, Magnetic Resonance Imaging. The one thing in the past 50 years that I literally could not live without.

If anyone is reading this blogpost, it would be interesting to know what you consider to be the most important invention that has emerged in your lifetime.

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Pet talk



If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

I have two very young dogs (the girl is 20 months old and her brother is 9 months old). We jokingly got them to ‘replace’ our two grown-up children who have now left home to make their own ways in the world. The dogs are very loveable, and loving, bundles of fur but there are a few things I wish they would understand (one is not enough!):

  • When I sit down to work, that does not mean it is play-time for you.
  • When I am on Zoom or Teams calls, I don’t want to be competing vocally with your barking.
  • I don’t really need to know when a neighbour is going out.
  • I also don’t really need to know that a neighbour is chatting in their back garden. Or even walking in it.
  • The wind is not scary – there is no need to bark at it.
  • Birds are allowed to fly above our garden, they will not divert their course because you’re barking at them. Same with aeroplanes.
  • When I have friends over, we much prefer it if we can hear each other speak.
  • That I have you on a leash when we go for ‘walkies’ to keep you safe. I know it is a hassle, but you’re both under 2.5kgs (and unlikely to get heavier) and some off-lead big dogs think you are toys. I want to be able to protect you, as you try to protect me.
  • You’ve been so beneficial for the whole family’s mental health. It’s always lovely to get a welcome when we come in, and you always do things which make us laugh.
  • Although I often say to the contrary out loud in moments of exasperation, we don’t regret getting you both (although our neighbours might!).
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The ‘hood: My reflections on our 23 years in Peebles, Scottish Borders.

My neighbourhood

After living in the green and rolling Scottish Borders for the past 23 years, we are looking at moving back to the city again in a few months’ time. Our wee town has served us well: when we first moved here the High Street had a wider range of shops than it does now, and there were no traffic lights at all in the town. You could go for a walk along the roadside and only have 2 -3 cars pass you. We loved seeing the hills out of both the back and front windows, and – through the front windows – the odd hot air balloon would take off from the fields behind our culdesac. We could sit out in the back garden and hear sheep on the near hills, and the leaves of the many trees rustling in the wind and very rarely heard the wail of sirens.

The town has since changed a lot – but then it would in 23 years. Now the High Street has a narrower range of shops (some of which are good, but most I don’t frequent as they don’t have exactly what I’m looking for), and the town has 3 sets of traffic lights (2 sets within 50yrds of each other) in order to allow pedestrians to cross between the steadily increasing flow of traffic. The hot-air balloon field is now a new housing estate, and the sheep are no longer on the hillsides (nor most of the trees – some of which were lopped when a house was built on the hillside). Wailing sirens of ambulances and police cars are almost a daily occurrence now, although fortunately usually not more than once or twice a day. And the town population has increased as Peebles lies within commuting range of Edinburgh and Galashiels.

However, that said, it is still a lovely place to live – very safe (on the whole) – and a good base for those of the mountain biking or horse riding crowd. [Disclaimer: I am not being paid by, or representing Peebles Tourist Board from here on. I’m just posting some of my wee photo memories for me to look back on and enjoy, and anyone else who might be remotely interested in knowing more about the wee town we have called home].

Over our 2 decades here, we have loved rambling up all the hills that surround the town, many times……

Cademuir
Top of Cademuir
Hamilton Hill

I think this will take more than 39 steps to finish.

……..and strolling down to Manor Valley, where the Old Manor Brig (built in 1702) stands. Funny to think that this old structure pre-dates the two Jacobite Rebellions.

Old Manor Brig

We have also loved our walks along the banks of the River Tweed….

The old viaduct

……. and alongside the local castle:

The River Tweed and Neidpath Castle

Peebles is also a very literary town. William and Robert Chambers (who were eminent publishers – think Chambers Dictionary) and whom Chambers Street in Edinburgh is named after, lived here, and the Chambers’ grave is in the local cemetery:

Outside the Chambers Institute on Peebles High Street

Peebles was also a place where the author John Buchan spent some time. His house (Bank House) still stands, and there is a museum dedicated to him on the High Street.

And, of course, you’re not far away from Sir Walter Scott’s house in Abbotsford, near Melrose, (one of my favourite places).

What else………ooo yes. Peebles also has the Cross Kirk, which has associations with St Nicholas (aka Father Christmas): see https://www.historicenvironment.scot/visit-a-place/places/cross-kirk-peebles/history/

Although I’ve been a member of a couple of gyms during my time here, nothing beats this one………

My gym – part of my 5k route
My gym – even better when the park is deserted, like it is here.

So, we have some nice memories of this town. It seems a shame to leave. However, for many reasons including my wish to be nearer to my almost 90-year-old Dad, to be closer to the Uni for my work and OH’s too, and to be generally closer to everything again, it needs done. Since the kids have left home for work and study, we don’t need our 5 bedroom house any more and, besides, it feels odd here without them. Like something is missing. It’s amazing just how much things like that can change a place. Plus, it’s quite easy to feel lonely here – I’ve not been included in any friendship ‘groups’, which can kinda get you down a bit, especially in a small town where everybody almost knows each other (or are related to each other). So, new adventures are on the horizon. We can always come back here for a day trip.

Onwards and upwards…….

Haylodge Park in autumn
View of church steeples from top of Haylodge Park
View over Manor Valley from The Sware
View from The Sware
Ruins at Nether Horsburgh, 2 miles out of Peebles
Haylodge Park taken on a frosty winter morning.
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Here we go again….

It is just over 18 months since my last blog post, and I am FINALLY going to try and commit some time to posting regular ramblings somewhere on this blog, and getting some content under these headings.

This ‘Random Blog’ tab will feature posts related to anything other than my PhD or English Lit, viz. jottings and paraphenalia from my fun-packed everyday life.

Many thanks for your patience!

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Apologies

Apologies for the blog-silence over the past month; PhD chapter deadlines, and a LOT of reading have left me less time to spend blogging, but the end of semester is in sight and I will endeavour to upload some more thoughts and insights on here.

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I’m also in the throes of re-decorating my blog page; it was badly needing updated. Once I have got my teeth into it properly, I’m hoping the page will look much better, and less like that of the newbie – which I still kind of am!

Back shortly!